If you’re a decent-looking dude, you should be able to pull at least a decent amount of chicks in your lifetime. You should have no problem talking to women, either. it should all be a natural process that is difficult sometimes, easy most of the time, and thoroughly interesting.
But there are some guys who just don’t get any attention or loving, and drift through life without having any real contact with women. It’s not their fault, it’s that women seem uninterested in them, leading to the dreaded “invisible disease.”
Being invisible to women sucks, and you need to figure out quickly why they’re not interested in you.
But if you’re not sure why they don’t like you, here are some of the most common reasons:
#1 – Your Style Sucks
Wearing a lame t-shirt and shorts every day might have been fine in middle school and high school, but once you get older, it’s time to step up your style game. It’s not even that hard, either.
You can just go to Express or American Eagle, look around at the displays they have set up, and buy exactly what’s shown.
More often than not, you can get an entire wardrobe of sick clothes for under $300. That’s not bad at all, and girls will love it.
#2 – Your Facial Hair is Laughable
Your mutton chops or little goatee thing need to go. And if you have a rapist mustache? Shave that thing off quick.
Facial hair needs to be in taste, and you can’t overdue it. There’s nothing wrong with shaving once in awhile, either. Girls love the stubble look, but they’re not that into a full beard.
Try shaving once every 1.5 weeks. It’ll give you the perfect amount of stubble for about a week at a time.
#3 – You’re Awkward
Girls don’t like a guy that sounds like he has Asperger’s Disease or something. You can’t be a stuttering mess with the lamest jokes ever. You need at least a decent amount of funny things to say, and least some interesting tidbits.
You don’t need to be Robin Williams out there, but being funny is an easy way to be liked. Try copying the style of your favorite comedian. It works.
#4 – You Try Too Hard
Girls can tell when you’re trying way too hard at getting them. They can sense you being stressed. If you chill out, let the words flow, and don’t get into ‘lame mode,’ you’ll have an easier time getting the girl.
So these are the most common reasons why you can’t land any chicks and why they ignore you.
These tips won’t help every time, but they’ll help you get on the way to success.