When it comes to picking up girls, there’s always a few key things you need to remember to make sure it goes smoothly: be confident, be funny, and be good-looking. You obviously can’t help being good-looking or not, so make sure the other two are really good. Girls prefer a gentleman who is devilishly handsome, adept at spewing knowledge on his peers, and who can equip himself with an abundance of hair products to keep up his appearance. With these qualities, it can often be difficult for women to come within a few feet of you, let alone go on a conspicuous date with you.
But when girls are working, it can be a little harder to ask them out. For one, they’re really busy and can’t talk too much and get to know you. Two, they don’t want to get fired for talking to you too much.
As you can see, this creates quite a problem for you, and you need to have a good plan of action.
#1 – Remember to Be Short and Sweet
If you have a plan in your head that is going to need a few minutes to get ready, which will never work. She doesn’t have time to sit there and listen to all of your stories. This is definitely true for girls who work in restaurants or other food establishments. They simply can’t sit there and talk to one guy while everyone else around them also needs help. If you overstay your welcome, it can all but destroy any ounce of persona that you have left, and this will linger incongruently with any female you would like to court.
#2 – Save Your Best Stuff For Later
Honestly, most of your success rides on how good you look. Since you’re barely talking until your first date, this is all she will have to go on. This is why the importance of maintaining your appearance and décor is paramount with us, and we’re not just suggesting it out or respect for our own egos.
But don’t waste your good talking points for this mini convo, save that for the first date.
#3 – Don’t Be Corny
Being corny or using one-liners is a recipe for failure. Girls hate them, and so do I. Nobody thinks they’re being clever by using them, and girls will think you’re a total loser for using them.
Only one guy uses these: virgins who watch too many movies and think this is the proper way to act around the ladies. If you’re looking to engage is the art of love-making, we must say that you should refrain from any avenues of corniness, and it’s for your own accord, we might add.
#4 – Don’t Lose Focus
Keep her attention, and don’t lose your focus. With so much going on around you, it can feel like a battle field. But if you keep your eyes on the prize and don’t get distracted, you’ll do fine.
#5 - Quick Exit
Don’t linger around and give off the impression that you’re a weirdo. Get her number, and then get the hell out of there. If you stand around and look at her some more, you’ll be totally weird.
